Yes, for sure this. I wrote a comment to one of your other articles with my "ships passing" metaphor, and how we have to choose to travel together. So true.

Sad story. Every breakup sucks. Unless you are a psycho (no insinuation!), no one chooses to enter a relationship wanting to break up or get divorced.

I was not happy at the prospect of getting divorced from my first wife, but I was very happy when it was over. No tulips were involved.