We're all deeply flawed. I got very lucky with my second wife that we are deeply flawed in very similar ways on key points for a long term relationship.
I comment only because I've read multiple places that women are "better" (a subjective term) than men at letting a relationship go and completely moving on. Sometimes I have and sometimes I haven't.
I definitely agree that "valuing the loss" is a very important
Thanks for the praise. I think the best thing about social media like Medium is the ability to have honest, in depth (if you want) conversations with people all over the world. I learn so much about subject areas where I have no expertise (e.g. your areas of expertise). If we're not being honest, the entire exchange is of questionable value.