This is something that I think a lot of men just don’t get. In my not so short life, I’ve never had a woman friend (platonic or romantic) that didn’t have such a story. I think in general men just don’t empathize well with how it is for a woman to spend her entire life thinking about being harassed or assaulted or thinking about how she was harassed or assaulted, because it happens to relatively few men — and of course we don’t talk about that shit.