OP calling all trad wives equivalent to Nazis is far, far more insulting than what I wrote.

It appears that both OP and you are looking for an tell people how they should think and speak, but aren't ready for any resistance.

OP is using one of the most common tactics that extremists - including Nazis and Nazi sympathizers - and dishonest actors - also including Nazis and Nazi sympathizers use: Accusing their political opponents of doing what they are doing. I called OP out on that.