Mine, too. There was "of course" all kinds of things that happened at home that no one saw or that someone said (nothing written, no corroboration) that made everything much more complicated than the simple truth that she was (and is) a lying, manipulating abuser.

It is similar to the Israeli ethnic cleansing of Palestinians. You don't have to reference 2000 year old religious texts to get the correct context. 20 hours on the Gaza strip will make it clear what is happening - if you are being honest in your appraisal.