It makes me wonder how many people got married before finding out that they are incompatible in bed. Since that is the most intimate, arguablely (at least by me!) most important factor in a long term monogomous relationship, you'd think people with an IQ higher than a flatworm would understand that.

"Hello sir, Would you like to test drive this car you plan on driving for the rest of your life?"

"Nah, I'm good. The color is nice and check out those headlights!"

"Hello ma'am. Would you like to spar some rounds to see if this is the guy you want to train with exclusively for the rest of your life?"

"Nah, I think it'll be fine. We talked and he seems nice."

My two examples are as insane as thinking your marriage is going to go well if your fiancé really wants to be dominated in bed....and so do you...and you've never discussed it.