If you are both of age and consenting, it is no one's business but your own. End of story.

Everyone has their kinks. Some people are into feet. I don't understand it, but so what? I've got my kinks and I don't care if other people understand them. I'm super-fortunate that my wife's kinks and mine match up extremely well.

If you like older guys and they like you, have at it and enjoy yourselves. I'm not going to kink shame. To each his or her own.

Carp Diem, Madelaine. Fish of the day is aparantly Mark. Good luck!