I quit many years ago. Right now my sister and I (and a bit of help from my brother) are trying to deal with our mom, an alcoholic, and my other sister, who enables our mom. I can't answer for her about #2 and 4, as she would just lie, but 1 and 5 are constant, major issues.

Mom also has, apparently, a body built for drinking, as her blood work is really good. It is probably the only reason she's not dead or a vegetable after having a major stroke.