Bing! Bing! Bing! No more calls. We have a winner.

I've found that if you take the time to make sure your girl comes first, then it doesn't matter whether you take 37 seconds or 20 minutes to finish. And for the record that 37 seconds was just a random number. That is definitely NOT me! No WAY! Horrible slanderous rumor! Anyway...if she comes once or twice more, she'll be REALLY happy, but since she has already come, she'll be happy no matter what. That means she'll be much more likely to want to have sex with you again.

Note also that if she comes first she be wet and a lot more relaxed. Both good ideas if you really want to get your freak on with that newly discounted Balenciaga BDSM set you bought last week.

TL; DR; remember your manners, guys, "Ladies first."